When you can’t avoid the hurt. Find a way through it.

For those who:

  • Have tried all the relationship advice and still feel stuck

  • Have failed in relationships before, but want this one to work

  • Feel trapped in the shame-and-blame cycle of infidelity

  • Want the magic, not the mess

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How Mindy Helps

Mindy works magic to help people in relationships finally feel heard in conflict, take responsibility without collapsing into shame, overcome the blame cycle of infidelity, and build relationships where desire and differences can coexist.

CHOOSE YOUR NEXT STEP

Ways to work together

Whether you need focused one-on-one support or a practical program you can work through together, there is a clear place to start.

01

Relationship coaching

For recurring arguments, breaches of trust, or a situation that needs more focused attention than a group setting can provide.

02

Therapy services

Individual and couples intensives for clients in Minnesota or Colorado, offered through Mindy’s clinical practice at CARE Counseling.

03

Workshops & programs

Practical skills for couples who want to communicate better, invest in what is already good, and make their relationship more resilient.

MEET MINDY

Warm, direct, and deeply practical.

Mindy is a relationship coach and licensed therapist who helps couples move beyond the same old fight.

Her approach brings together counseling psychology, conflict resolution, Internal Family Systems, and two decades of teaching interpersonal communication.


20+ Years

teaching communication

MA

in Counseling Psychology

LPC

licensed therapist


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CLIENT STORIES

What change can feel like

A space for approved stories from people who found a clearer, more connected way forward.

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I feel the best version of myself after working with Mindy. I now show up in relationships more calm and clear. I look at the whole person vs. judging someone by a made-up ‘checklist’. And, finally, dating and being in a relationship feels exciting instead of stressful.


C.G.

Relationship coaching

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The most common feedback I get from women is that their MEN love working with me. I specifically bring the respect for both masculine and feminine energy into the room. I strongly affirm equal value for different roles.


Mindy

Relationship coaching

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I have had a lot of coaches and therapists. Mindy was refreshing. Mindy was real.


Anonymous

Relationship coaching

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THE NEXT STEP

See which path fits your relationship.

Start with a short conversation about what feels stuck, what you have already tried, and the kind of support that may help most.